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How should i continue with this situation? [message #9798] Mon, 07 November 2016 11:37 Go to next message
v3o3d3 is currently offline  v3o3d3
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Over the last couple of weeks my female co worker has started to play fight with me alot more than she usually does. Its escalated so much that staff members are making playful comments about us. A previous co worker used to play fight with me, but not on this scale. It turned out that she liked me. So am i right to assume this co worker is the same?.
She asked one of the managers about relationships in the workplace and who would have to leave if she had one. A male member of staff told me it was directed at me. I jokingly made a comment to my female co worker, one that ive made before in which she found funny, but she got offended by it this time and didnt want to talk to me after that. I thought she may have been joking when asking about workplace relationships. But judging from her reaction she was being serious. Later on that day she began to play fight with me again and started to be overly nice to me, which she usually doesnt do.
My female co worker has been seeing a guy for a few months but refuses to call him her boyfriend when anyone asks if he is. Any help would be appreciated.
Re: How should i continue with this situation? [message #10055 is a reply to message #9798] Fri, 14 December 2018 00:54 Go to previous message
LeePalm44 is currently offline  LeePalm44
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If the question is still relevant, or if anyone has a similar issue.. Well, it looks like she likes you and behaves like that to get some attention. I'd say 70% chances is that it is like that. But there are other 30% chances that that's not true, and there could be many other reasons for her to play fight... personal dissatisfaction, or she doesn't like you or something else.

So.. I think what you could do is to clarify that. You could manage to start getting more interactions with her but strictly within working relationship, and observe carefully. I bet after some time it will because obvious for you how she's actually feel about you.

Hope that makes sense.

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