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What I have to do? [message #5142] Tue, 29 March 2011 15:35 Go to next message
Jessica Parker is currently offline  Jessica Parker
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Recently one boy sent me a flirt on livedatesearch.com and I answered. Now we have TWO-WAY-MATCH.
Should I write him first or better to wait till he writes me?
Re: What I have to do? [message #5152 is a reply to message #5142] Wed, 06 April 2011 17:21 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Jayson is currently offline  Jayson
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Well if you interested in him and don't want to wait- better write. You will not lose nothing.
Re: What I have to do? [message #5307 is a reply to message #5142] Fri, 05 August 2011 10:28 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Anonymous IP: 145.236.157.217
Agree.... Let him write to you.
Re: What I have to do? [message #5340 is a reply to message #5142] Sat, 20 August 2011 16:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Anonymous IP: 145.236.141.161
Ye if he don't send you, you have to do it Smile
Re: What I have to do? [message #5369 is a reply to message #5142] Fri, 09 September 2011 23:46 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Anonymous IP: 101.2.74.152
Do break the ice. Don't wait and waste time.
Re: What I have to do? [message #5424 is a reply to message #5369] Mon, 12 September 2011 22:28 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Anonymous IP: 84.0.241.250
Ye, do it! Smile
Re: What I have to do? [message #6380 is a reply to message #5142] Tue, 07 August 2012 05:47 Go to previous messageGo to next message
daygamedatingcoach is currently offline  daygamedatingcoach
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it's just a flirt over the net so i don't think there's anything wrong with that.
Re: What I have to do? [message #7034 is a reply to message #5142] Wed, 27 March 2013 09:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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If you like him, then it's alright if you'll write him first.
Re: What I have to do? [message #8643 is a reply to message #5142] Wed, 30 July 2014 14:45 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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There is no harm in writing back again. There is no harm in trying there is nothing wrong when a woman initiates the contact.
Re: What I have to do? [message #8669 is a reply to message #5142] Tue, 19 August 2014 20:51 Go to previous messageGo to next message
WildOne is currently offline  WildOne
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Jessica:

You need to establish for yourself what your dating goals are first and make some ground rules to follow. Ideally, would you rather have a man pursue you or do you like that role? If you want the man to pursue, always leave the ball in his court. In this case, you've send an indicator of interest, now you wait to hear from him again. Don't email or contact him first. Respond to his replies and then wait for him.

If you like the role of the pursuer, that's ok, but you will attract men who like that too and typically they will disappear as quickly as they showed up especially after they get what they want. That is just a typical scenario in that case. You being the pursuer makes it a little more difficult to know which guys will be a serious dating prospect or not. It can happen, you just have to be more observant, be on your game so to speak all the time.

If you draw the man to you and he is doing the pursuing in all the right ways, you'll know pretty quickly, if they are serious or not. They will call often, schedule regular dates. If they don't, then there's something is up with them.

Let this guy take the lead.
Re: What I have to do? [message #8670 is a reply to message #5142] Tue, 19 August 2014 20:51 Go to previous messageGo to next message
WildOne is currently offline  WildOne
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Jessica:

You need to establish for yourself what your dating goals are first and make some ground rules to follow. Ideally, would you rather have a man pursue you or do you like that role? If you want the man to pursue, always leave the ball in his court. In this case, you've send an indicator of interest, now you wait to hear from him again. Don't email or contact him first. Respond to his replies and then wait for him.

If you like the role of the pursuer, that's ok, but you will attract men who like that too and typically they will disappear as quickly as they showed up especially after they get what they want. That is just a typical scenario in that case. You being the pursuer makes it a little more difficult to know which guys will be a serious dating prospect or not. It can happen, you just have to be more observant, be on your game so to speak all the time.

If you draw the man to you and he is doing the pursuing in all the right ways, you'll know pretty quickly, if they are serious or not. They will call often, schedule regular dates. If they don't, then there's something is up with them.

Let this guy take the lead.
Re: What I have to do? [message #9400 is a reply to message #5142] Tue, 15 December 2015 15:23 Go to previous message
Brick11Molain is currently offline  Brick11Molain
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I believe that we build our own destiny. Everything in life happens because of or in spite of our actions. This is a destiny. So if you brought your destiny, then why not to take a chance? He likes you, you like him. It's simple. Talk.
Moreover, this is online dating. If you don't like something, you can stop the communication any time. Ban or something like that. So I advise you to act. Write.
In addition, men are very slow-witted, and good men are more often indecisive.
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