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When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #5343] Sat, 20 August 2011 16:14 Go to next message
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At the last week I've met with a girl who is older me. (3year gap) We enyojed our time and met several times. She gave me signs that shows me she likes me. But our last date went wrong... we kissed each other, then she said we can't meet again. Because she don't want to hurt me. I know that she likes me, that kiss showed me that. And the way she hugs me... She said she hates me because of I'm yunger. I need that girl, but really don't know what to do now. (sorry for my bad english)
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #5364 is a reply to message #5343] Fri, 09 September 2011 23:33 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Hmm. Try to convince the girl that age is not a factor.
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #5416 is a reply to message #5364] Sun, 11 September 2011 16:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Working on it Smile Now we are dating Wink
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #5559 is a reply to message #5343] Mon, 07 November 2011 22:27 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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sound good to hear that!
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Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #5576 is a reply to message #5343] Mon, 07 November 2011 23:05 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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3yr gap is not a huge gap in age, the both of you should be on the same path in life. You should not give up if you like her

Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #5722 is a reply to message #5576] Sat, 26 November 2011 15:00 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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you can talk to again age doesn't matter because both are in love and needs eachother.


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Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #5752 is a reply to message #5343] Thu, 08 December 2011 11:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #5800 is a reply to message #5343] Thu, 29 December 2011 07:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Anonymous wrote on Sat, 20 August 2011 16:14
At the last week I've met with a girl who is older me. (3year gap) We enyojed our time and met several times. She gave me signs that shows me she likes me. But our last date went wrong... we kissed each other, then she said we can't meet again. Because she don't want to hurt me. I know that she likes me, that kiss showed me that. And the way she hugs me... She said she hates me because of I'm yunger. I need that girl, but really don't know what to do now. (sorry for my bad english)

Hi,
I really understood your problem. I do not feel age is a problem in love. Your story shows that she loves you. You convince her that being a life partner understanding is main factor which you have but age gap is not a factor. All the best.

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Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #5930 is a reply to message #5343] Thu, 19 January 2012 09:51 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Sometimes girls are awkward if their BF is younger than them. But for me if you really like her you should continue courting her and prove to her that age will not be a problem in a relationship. She might think that you are younger and you don't know yet how to handle a relationship (sometimes we think that way). In your situation, you must do prove to her that you like her and don't give up. Goodluck! Very Happy




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Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #6276 is a reply to message #5343] Tue, 08 May 2012 12:26 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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i think most women think that if a guy is younger he tends to be unfaithful for may one time will come that he will look for another woman of his same age .. so i think that if you really like her and so serious about her.. prove it to her .. the circumstances will be easy to go through if she's into you too .. good luck Smile
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #6309 is a reply to message #5343] Thu, 24 May 2012 07:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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aw..
sorry to read this..
but you know 3 years age gap is not really a problem..
maybe he found something about you that she thought showed that you're too young..
try to look around Smile
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #6333 is a reply to message #5343] Mon, 09 July 2012 12:46 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Well in high school it is kind of tough. When you're 21 and older people don't care about that anymore. Like when you're 25 and he's 23 it doesn't matter but in high school it can be tricky because now we're talkin senior dating a sophmore and you know how you teenagers can be.....you're peers can be just plain mean! So think about it for a long hard while, you may want to keep him in the friend zone for a while.


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Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #6412 is a reply to message #5364] Tue, 28 August 2012 02:54 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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good to hear that you're dating again.It's not a reason for you to split up just because of the age gap. Always remember that if you love her pursue her. Patience is a virtue. Wish you all the best. If you want more tips and advice you can seek my advice. Don't worry it's free.

Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #6889 is a reply to message #5343] Fri, 18 January 2013 14:40 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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She must be thinking that you are not mature enough for her. Prove her that she is wrong with her impression of you. Age doesn't matter. It depends on how well you can get along with each other.
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #8604 is a reply to message #5343] Sat, 28 June 2014 10:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Why would that be weird?
Is this a high school romance where everyone makes a big deal out of a senior dating someone in a lower grade?
In the real world, age really doesn't matter.
If you like someone, you like someone.
If you love someone, you love someone.
Simple as that.
And if
the age doesnt matter. as long as you love each other.


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Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #8978 is a reply to message #5343] Thu, 16 April 2015 17:48 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Mu future wife is almost 6 year older than me! I think it's ok! Don't bother about it, 3 years it's not a big difference, I THINK!=) Smile
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #8983 is a reply to message #5343] Thu, 16 April 2015 18:43 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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My future wife is almost 6 years older than me! I don't see any problems, in your case the difference is only 3 years! Are you kidding? It's not a big deal!
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #9014 is a reply to message #5343] Sat, 02 May 2015 22:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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3 years old is really not a big gap.

But this is what seems questionable to me:
Quote:

She said she hates me because of I'm yunger


Did she say literally that?


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Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #9034 is a reply to message #5343] Wed, 13 May 2015 23:32 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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don't worry
first of fall you thought about her best time spent with you and you will try to remember it her then you will success its
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #9050 is a reply to message #9034] Wed, 20 May 2015 00:38 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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It's not a big problem, but different
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #9084 is a reply to message #5343] Thu, 16 July 2015 15:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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its okay i think, because age factor not take effect on maturity
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #9159 is a reply to message #5343] Sun, 16 August 2015 13:58 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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One of my old school friends married a women who was 13 years older then him, to me age means nothing its just a number! If you happy it doesnt matter.
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #9324 is a reply to message #5343] Mon, 30 November 2015 16:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I think that 3 years gap is not a problem. Even 10 years is not a problem, if it's acceptable for you.
Re: When the girl is older than the guy.... [message #9396 is a reply to message #5343] Mon, 14 December 2015 12:02 Go to previous message
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There is a common notion that a couple has no future if the guy is younger than the girl. And I think that we should take into consideration the traditional roles of husbands and wives: husbands were the financial providers and wives were the baby factories. So, according men - older people are generally more established in their careers and thus better able to be providers. According younger women - they have more years in front of them to bear children. Do you know some practical samples when a woman is older than a man? Actually I have only one example and it is not successful;(
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