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I need male help [message #5460] Wed, 19 October 2011 12:18 Go to next message
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I am interested in your opinion guys. Are you paying for the girl in the restaurant on the first date? And if she shows that she can pay herself what are you doing in this situation?

The reason of that question is that I my new boyfriend doesn't really care about paying for me, and this is quite offending. Does it mean that he is not very serious to me? Actually we just had a few dates and nothing serious has happened between us yet. What does such behavior means?
Re: I need male help [message #5563 is a reply to message #5460] Mon, 07 November 2011 22:38 Go to previous messageGo to next message
SteveMarker is currently offline  SteveMarker
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I don't think that he likes you cause of his behavior...
sorry if i misbehaving you


Re: I need male help [message #6383 is a reply to message #5460] Tue, 07 August 2012 06:07 Go to previous messageGo to next message
daygamedatingcoach is currently offline  daygamedatingcoach
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respect and being a gentleman matter.
let her pay on the first date and it will be the biggest turn off, i swear.
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Re: I need male help [message #7033 is a reply to message #5460] Wed, 27 March 2013 09:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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A guy should be paying on a first date. That guy doesn't sound good and not worth having dinner with.
Re: I need male help [message #8640 is a reply to message #5460] Wed, 30 July 2014 14:41 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I think it's a good idea that you both pay your own bills but if you are the one who asked for the date then you should be paying as a gentleman.
Re: I need male help [message #9178 is a reply to message #5460] Wed, 26 August 2015 22:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Sorry it is not clear whether he is paying or is not paying. Please clarify
Re: I need male help [message #9384 is a reply to message #5460] Thu, 10 December 2015 10:11 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Re: I need male help [message #9547 is a reply to message #5460] Tue, 02 February 2016 11:36 Go to previous message
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this is absolutely ok. usually guys do not even think about this as a problem. this is like an rdinary behaviour. for sample, me friend's boyfriend was unemployed when they started to date. and she payed for him for about 3 or 4 monthes. and she even didn't know that he is unemployed. they are still together. and this case happedned 2 years ago.
I think you'd better to suggest him once, ease whether he want to treat you coffee. and you would be very pleased
try it. may be you will discuss it finally
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