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Confused [message #9765] Thu, 08 September 2016 20:16 Go to next message
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I have known this girl for over 10 years. I have been into her for about 8. But she has always had someone else. Well 2 years ago she became single. We hung out and I had asked her out on a date. She had said no didn't think it was a good time. She went back to him and recently became single. We've been hanging out alot. Lots of laughs and good times. Every time we hang out I think about her like CRAZY for days after. She's truly an amazing girl in my eyes. Smart, drop dead gorgeous, caring, excellent mother, funny and just all around perfect. But I'm afraid to ask her out on a "date" again because don't want to get rejected or make it awkward to hang out but yet I'm going crazy thinking about her all the time. After we hang out is the worst. I look at pictures we took and can't help to just smile. Do I risk it again knowing might be a chance of getting rejected and not hanging out anymore or do I keep my head spinning and just stay in "friendzone"?
Re: Confused [message #9790 is a reply to message #9765] Mon, 17 October 2016 08:37 Go to previous message
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Confused3 wrote on Thu, 08 September 2016 20:16
I have known this girl for over 10 years. I have been into her for about 8. But she has always had someone else. Well 2 years ago she became single. We hung out and I had asked her out on a date. She had said no didn't think it was a good time. She went back to him and recently became single. We've been hanging out alot. Lots of laughs and good times. Every time we hang out I think about her like CRAZY for days after. She's truly an amazing girl in my eyes. Smart, drop dead gorgeous, caring, excellent mother, funny and just all around perfect. But I'm afraid to ask her out on a "date" again because don't want to get rejected or make it awkward to hang out but yet I'm going crazy thinking about her all the time. After we hang out is the worst. I look at pictures we took and can't help to just smile. Do I risk it again knowing might be a chance of getting rejected and not hanging out anymore or do I keep my head spinning and just stay in "friendzone"?

move slowly from freindzone to dating, take her to date without letting her know that she is on date, like take her to lunch or dinner alone, just say that you know a good place for a nice chat and take her to dinner...
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